Sunday, June 24, 2012

Who is more important Family or Friend?

Researches which have been conducted have shown that
  • Social support is related to psychological well-being, less likely she is to feel depressed and anxious.
  • High levels of social support expect more job satisfaction and longer job occupancy than low levels of social support.
There are incalculable other publications on the important roles both friends and family can play in our lives, and the general agreement is that social support is very essential for life success. “Many people will walk in and out of your life; but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart." The children are usually closer to their parents and their siblings as compared to any other person in the world. As the children grow up they find good friends, colleagues to share their lives with.

Friends are our truest treasures. Because friends accept us for who we are, we gain the confidence to dream great dream and to make them real through in the life. Friends liven up our days with their twisted humor, their honest answers, and their ability to bear our gloating when we beat them at golf or tennis. We can even trust them with our most embarrassing secrets! What a relief it is for us to reveal our true selves to someone! Friendship is the blessing and the greatest gift to mankind. Friends are God's apology for relations.   When we are born, we are gifted with the blood relations who make our family. But friendship is not a blood relation; this is the relation which we choose according to our will. Friendship is a very sweet and emotional relationship which gives a man the whole happiness of life. It makes one’s life so easy and peaceful.

Friendship is just like the water. As water gets the shape of that pot in which it is poured, friendship gets the same shape according to the situation. Friendship is an everlasting relation which comes from heart to heart. If the family is stress with the office work family members or even parent are blaming their own children. Then the children will affect to this and loss the fun in life and they spend the time sadly. So that someone can say friends are important than family. That’s true in one side. So we say our sorrow to the friend and get advice or try to be joyful in life by making the life as a shining star in the sky. Even though where we can’t express the ideas to the family, we can say to the friends who are shadows of us in the life. Therefore somebody can say that Friends are more important than the family.

But in my opinion I believe that family is more significant than friends. In the first place, we can always trust our family’s members. When we have a trouble and we need some help, who will help us first? Of course, the family members help us in numerous ways. Even though when we are ill the family members get us for the hospital. There is nothing better than having a place you can call as home, where you feel loved, appreciated and safe. When we go home after school, class or after work at office; family will greet or look us amazing to hear the stories about us. Then the defects to us can be express and family will try to satisfy us by providing at least that stuff before we leave home.
So I think parents or family is the best suitable answer to the question which I raised before. I have evidence to prove my point of view. “The family is one of nature's masterpieces.”





From my childhood I had several friends and still. We share our experience, ideas, work, food and all in every time. But you many not known that well. And also the have helped me a lot by scarifying their valuable time with me and office work. They search all about myself and offer the solutions quickly. We spend more time with family and are happy. Even though I express some secrets to friends they keep it as a secret with them without letting others to know. But this I do to family too. Then you will have a question. But Final answer is family is more significant than friends.

4 comments:

  1. Rejoice with the family in the beautiful land of life!

    As the family goes, so goes the nation and so goes the whole world in which we live

    Who is more important Family or Friend?

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  2. My answer is "Family" Good work
    Good Luck

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  3. Family is not an important thing, it's everything.In general Girls give more importance to family and boys give more importance to friendship. Good post :)

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  4. yep u re correct but some girls reveal the secrets even to the friend but according to the research of mine Family is more important!!!

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