Monday, July 22, 2013

Forgiveness

Forgiveness is a task not simply consummated. This requires an individual to let loose all negative passions related with the offenses against them. It is important to forget what another person has done. Rage, revenge, anger and sorrow are a few emotions that an individual must face when considering forgiveness. Forgiveness is a very subjective subject matter and everyone has their own idea on who should and who should not be forgiven.

In order to forgive others, you have to first forgive yourself. If you feel guilty about something, you have to be able to accept that you made a mistake, but you also have to then carry on and move forward. If you cannot forgive yourself, you will always be scold yourself and you won’t be able to leave the past behind.
Of course, you have to learn from the mistakes you made and try to never repeat them. In my opinion, once you understand that you have spent more time making yourself feel bad about something you have done, it becomes clear others have long since forgiven you.

Everyone has their own set of morals and ethics. I think that the hardest people to forgive are the people who are near to you. If someone who is close to you like a friend, then for them do forgiveness that they have given up your trust to some extent. I think that the level of trust breaks how it is easy to excuse someone.

I think if someone made a genuine mistake and this hurt you, then there is nothing to forgive, but if someone purposely show your trust then this makes it much more difficult to forgive. In my opinion, everything can be forgiven, but not forgotten. It is not always probable to trust someone to the same degree as before and even if it is, trust is something which has to be earned back.

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