Things that do and don’t make you a good mother

After the university life or the college life we all want to do the best job to earn money. Also need to act as parents is the greatest mother or father in the life to make bright future for our children. It is the only thing that our parents like to see in future of our lives. We should provide parental affection to the children while maintaining good discipline of children. Here are a few things that do and don't make you a good mother.

Things that do make you a good mom:

1.      Patience: Parenting is nothing without a test of patience. And the more patience you have of it soft everything for you and your children will try to go wrong. When you have loads of endurance, you have the ability to be a great example as an enormous teacher to your child.

2.      Understanding your child: Today most of the children hate to be swing. When your child likes to be with you, you must control on facing outward. The capabilities of your child may differ from other children.

3.      Knowing the difference between what your child needs and what they want: When your baby is an infant their wants and needs are the same. But as they grow up their want/need become changing. It's our job as parents to decipher the want and need as well as to know when to give them what they need.

4.      Not judging: You can be the most organized person when you judge other people. But you cannot judge your child with other people. That's not a good trait.

5.      Letting your child know how crazily, insanely, psychotically you love them: Although you are busy in the day you must provide them love and affection and tell the children the good things and bad things daily to build a good personality.

Things that don't make you a good mom:

1.      Breast-feeding: Yes, breast is best and it's the most superb nutrition for your little kid. But no, it's not what makes you a "good mom". You must do it to a certain level without being shame to do it. As they grew up it is the best to give a bottle of milk to drink to the child. When you do this child may feel like mother is not loved /cared about myself.

2.      Giving birth naturally: If you give birth to your child same as in a pool of swans without a drug it won’t what make you a good parent. Naturally no drugs are best.

3.      Having your child sleep through the night soundly in a crib: Every family is not similar in performing work. Just because you sleep in bed with your baby doesn't mean you have a deeper bond. Although you child sleep you must pay attention on the sound of breath and look after him.

4.      Making all of your baby's food: Without cooking at home by offering fast food or bottled milk or tea doesn't make you a good mother. So it’s your responsibility to provide the child with great nutritious food. When you get home from work, making baby food isn't fun. But spending time with your baby is the most important aspect.